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Should’ve, Could’ve & Would’ve

SHOULD’VE, COULD’VE & WOULD’VE

  Regret is among the worst, if not the worst and most agonizingly emotional experience that any human being will endure in a lifetime. This psychological malady will be experienced by most people in the Golden Years of life. It can strike without regard for age and it leaves marks on the soul deeper than any other side effect of living. Renowned philosopher, author, and famous entrepreneur, Jim Rohn stated it this way, Failure weighs ounces, but regret weighs tons. This sediment expresses descriptively the heart-felt woe that can’t be calmed because the object of the regret is generally an event or occasion in time past. The past simply can’t be re-lived and there aren’t any re-do’s in life, especially in the emotional department of the human mind and heart.

  There is little recourse for correction of a life’s path which can effectively reunite the person with the object to resolve regret, or the litter of depression left behind in it’s wake. Sometimes the feelings will linger for many years and is a thing, if possible, one should avoid. It may be of interest to take note that the statistics on this subject are not prejudicial in nature, as regret has proven to be an equal opportunity pit of emotional sadness for all concerned, and or affected by it’s result. Most of our lives are riddled with complex decisions and choices on a daily basis that can deposit lasting effects. Memories of lost dreams left behind by this tiny word can leave a giant footprint on the front porch of our lives and distress seems to follow every step.

I believe that this may be the saddest of all human maladies, although seldom is it a result of accidental consequences, rather it is a direct reaction to a personal choice or an indiscriminate decision made in a fleeting moment and virtually void of any serious thought or consideration. In short, to put it bluntly, it is a creature of our own making, a monster, if recognized would have been choked-out before it began to draw the first breath. Such are the situations in which we have chosen to live, life is overwhelming when we thoughtlessly add to the mixture of difficulty, even without our keen intervention. It is imperative that each person strive to understand his/her position in the order of God’s creation and apply the common sense provided to us toward the betterment of the human condition.

  Most of our lives are filled with the Should’ve, Could’ve and Would’ve we chose to ignore along the way to our distinctive and individual pathways on route to the good-life. Success is a state of mind, a mindset to be accurate, a thought gained, a goal developed, a plan devised, and the necessary action implemented to attain the desired result. This is “the stuff from which dreams are made”, all of your dreams are reachable and achievable if you learn that you are the responsible party in seldom is it a result of accidental consequences, rather it is a direct reaction to a personal choice or an indiscriminate decision made in a fleeting moment and virtually void of any serious thought or consideration. In short, to put it bluntly, it is a creature of our own making, a monster, if recognized would have been choked-out before it began to draw the first breath. Such are the situations in which we have chosen to live, life is overwhelming when we thoughtlessly add to the mixture of difficulty, even without our keen intervention. It is imperative that each person strive to understand his/her position in the order of God’s creation and apply the common sense provided to us toward the betterment of the human condition.

  YOU, and only you, were made to fulfill your dreams, goals, and aspirations. Why do you still sit on the side lines of the game playing out in your life? Is regret in the cards for you? Who controls the next play in your life …. YOU that’s who! It’s too late to raise the banners and strike up the band when the parade has passed you by. Excuses won’t provide the remedy to prevent or cure your REGRETS, and why live without what you’ve always wanted and dreamed about without even an honest try?? I wish it was up to me, but it isn’t, it’s all up to you because the Truth of life is “It’s All About The U In Youand it always has been.

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